I just need to delete you!

Over the years I’ve learned to accept people for our differences, views, opinions, the way we live, etc. I don’t agree with everyone and everything so why should they agree with everything that I say or do. It’s called growing; maturing, being comfortable in your own skin and lastly..not giving a single solitary fuck about what anyone has to say. I see that many aren’t there yet. People are so worried about other’s opinions that they don’t realize how ignorant they sound. Or…maybe it was just me? I could have possibly been blinded because of who that person is I would ignore their words that could be viewed as hateful. Then for a while, I stopped going through my timeline just to stop seeing the nonsense. I’m saying all of that…What I have realized is that when people speak badly or hateful of people and groups. So let’s use the popular example of the LGBTQ community. I say popular because so many people constantly post things they don’t like about the community which even includes breathing. That seems like obsessive behavior to me. If you don’t like a certain group of people then why keep posting about them. It also seems like you are not only looking for acceptance from others regarding your ignorance, but you are obviously trolling the community for a reaction. That’s why y’all say stuff like “I’m not arguing with anyone” or “I said what I said!” You know…bullshit like that. We all know that’s not how you truly want the outcome to be. You want to start a beef so you can be justified in calling someone out of their name. 

Let’s get some shit straight! No one is trying to push the “gay agenda” or their “lifestyle” on you. No one is trying to brainwash your kids. Maybe it’s just trying to prepare your kids for the real world. Let them know that maybe mommy and daddy or whoever isn’t right about gay and transgender people. Maybe they are just like me. These are the same adults that will talk about a toddler walking around in his mom’s heels and say they’re making him gay, but live for the toddler girl twerking and shaking things that haven’t even developed yet. Also…no one is trying to take your man or woman and turn them out. Honey…they’ve been down all along just an FYI and trust me it doesn’t take much convincing either. The saying goes… “hurt people, hurt people.” And it seems when you fail in getting the reaction you want, your hate grows. If you don’t like people in the community then don’t act like you are befriending then. You are offending the community as a whole when you act like you are speaking ill about “certain people” of the community. It’s almost 2020, and if you are bothered by the existence of anyone who you deem as different or whatever, these are your issues and your insecurities. Maybe it’s jealousy because you are afraid to be who you are in this world because of other’s opinions and you see a group of people who are happy and free. That’s not our problem. Work on yourself and quit looking for validation and the expense of other people’s livelihood and sometimes safety. Know that when you speak these things out in the open, it only fuels those who think like you, which is usually people who are insecure about who they are as well. 

I told myself two years ago that I’m not arguing with anyone anymore. If you want to start an argument…you will be arguing with yourself. From now on, I’m just deleting people. I don’t care who you are and how long we’ve known each other. There’s no need to let it known again…I will just delete them and move on.