Category: Realness

I’m growing…or I just don’t give a da.mn anymore…

Over the past month or so I have been going back and deleting blog posts that I started, memes that I’ve made and pics I wanted to share where I was being shady, passive-aggressive, or just good old-fashioned petty. These have had to deal with various feelings, thoughts, emotions, etc.; that I have been feeling.…

By Tahir Ali February 23, 2020 0

2019 Wrap-up…The year of lessons learned and growth

I believe every day should be looked at as a new start and a brand new beginning. If we are blessed to wake up the next day we better make it worth it. So what does that say for the new year? The same exact thing in my opinion. I look at it that way…

By Tahir Ali December 15, 2019 0

I just need to delete you!

MOOD!!! Over the years I’ve learned to accept people for our differences, views, opinions, the way we live, etc. I don’t agree with everyone and everything so why should they agree with everything that I say or do. It’s called growing; maturing, being comfortable in your own skin and lastly..not giving a single solitary fuck…

By Tahir Ali November 16, 2019 0

I bought my first pair of jeans in 7 years!

Actually, I bought two pairs of jeans. And if you could care less or wonder what the big deal is…🖕🏽! I could have worn jeans before surgery but you know I am going to keep it real with y’all. There were many reasons why I hadn’t worn jeans in years. One…because of my small waist…

By Tahir Ali October 13, 2019 0

The blessing outweighs the curse…Part 2

Dealing With People. Yes…I’m in my feelings, yes I’m ranting and yes I’m venting! On my journey to become a better person, I’ve noticed that those who you bring into your life; can also bring you down. Our desire for companionship, friendship…whatever you want to call it, seems to draw us more to people that…

By Tahir Ali September 2, 2019 0

Face it…Oprah is trash!

In the “People vs O.J. Simpson” Cuba Gooding Jr while portraying O.J. had one of the most real lines in a TV show ever! “I’m not black, I’m O.J.” The scary thing is, I’m sure that many black celebrities feel this way. One in particular that comes to mind and who I know definitely feels…

By Tahir Ali March 16, 2019 0

1 Year Post-Op

Lord have mercy! Where do I begin? I know that in past blog postings I’ve given you all the tea on my journey as well as updates on how I’ve been feeling post-op about everything involving my surgery. But now…as of August 7, 2018 it’s been officially one year since my gastric surgery. I wanted…

By Tahir Ali August 18, 2018 0

Why I converted to Islam

Now that my very first Ramadan is over…I’ve decided to discuss just a few of the reasons why I converted to Islam almost two years ago. I will say since converting to Islam I feel this enormous shift in my life and how this shift has made me a better person. I spoke in a…

By Tahir Ali June 17, 2018 0

Dear Kanye West…..

You know what…nevermind…I was going to write Kanye a “dear letter;” seeing how I haven’t written one in a while and I felt that he may need a strong one. Instead I think that I will just address this situation as I see it head on. From MY POINT OF VIEW! The reason why I…

By Tahir Ali April 26, 2018 0

Dear Mo’Nique…..GUUURRRRLLLLL!!!

Now I haven’t had to do a “Dear” letter in a long time. However, enough is enough! Mo’Nique’s antics over the past few years have led me to the point where it’s time to finally give my opinion on this. I have so much to say so this post may be a little lengthy, but…

By Tahir Ali January 28, 2018 0